>pic mostly unrelated
there's one guy whose memba messages always get completely ignored by our oshi. i understand why, he's pretty awkward, possibly genuinely autistic, and he tends to stick out a bit. i also happen to know he already got banned from his first oshi. he seems to genuinely regret his actions, but maybe he just regrets the punishment and hasn't learned anything? who's to say. he seems to have trouble conforming to our community.

in any case, it rubs me the wrong way that she's willing to take his money, and treat him like a lesser fan. i get having favorites, but this is almost like anti-ing your own fans.

am i being a dumbass for over-thinking it? is it on us fans to do more to make this kid not act out retardedly? should our oshi just ban him?