>>10939709So you mean you only want to hear an answer that fits a preconception? That the 'questions' are simply rhetorical pretexts to fish for validation for something already decided upon before even asking them? And will keep 'asking' unless and until you get it?
What do you even want to hear? 'Sure they may be marginal now, marginal in the past, and well likely marginal in the future, but thats okay and not reflective of anything particularly bad because [reasons], thus sparing my sublimated insecurities'?
