Let's set the stage here, and say for example there's actually two "you" that are always existing, and they reside within the heart and the mind; the genuine self and the perceived self.
Within the mind's perceived self, there's two camps waging a war, and another that's been absent for a while now; I'm sure you already seen the one (feminine/emotionality based thinking - > female/chaos) and the upcoming (feminine/emotionality - > male/order)

what's the problem here? the problem is neither of these camps give a shit about who your oshi actually is, they just want image they project to be emotionally true (first group wants everyone to be emotionally aligned, second wants everyone to be logically aligned) BASED ON THEIR FEELINGS; feelings that entirely reside within their head separate from their actual emotions as they don't want to be their genuine self, they want to be the perceived self, a fake upkeep that rots away at any pure logic, or any emotional depth respectively.

If the old mob says your oshi isn't for trans rights, the new mob will say that your oshi is a tramp for not being "based" (**ppa had trouble with being lumped in this group as she didn't want to be purely seen as based) and any lewd tuber, or any lewd content will be shamed because "the shoe is on the other foot now!"

dont let either side think that they have control over YOUR interest/YOUR hobby.