>>12435012I don't have a more complicated answer than "you cope with it." I'm in love with mine too, but I've taken that as an opportunity to reflect on what makes me fall in love with someone to begin with. It also just makes me happy knowing that someone I adore so much gets to do such a fun job for a living.
... as a result of this experience I have also realized how much I already wanted to pursue a career in Japan so who knows, maybe there's a chance I'd bump into her some day. Not holding my breath obviously, but it makes for some good daydreams.