How the hell you guys cope with not having enough energy nor time to keep up with every chuuba?

Besides my oshi, I would love to keep up with almost every HoloEN chuuba and dozen of JP ones. But I just can't. It hurts when I need to choose between girls, it feels bad that I will get left behind.

Then when you wanna discuss any chuuba you like but who you haven't kept up with that much, anons in the generals call you an anti because you get something wrong and you feel like shit and inferior all the time. You feel like shit when you do not get all the shit they are talking about. Some people in the generals are really intense and it feels like gatekeeping. It feels like unless I become a member for every single chuuba and donate half of my salary to them, I shouldn't watch those chuubas.

When you start feeling like that you just don't even wanna get into any chuuba anymore and won't watch the streams.