>>16667620actually i've changed my tune, some /vt/ anons helped me see the light.
i was all for stamping out incel-x-idol culture and letting these grown ass women do whatever they want since it doesn't bother me;. for instance watching ollie/bae/towa/etc play APEX with guys, in fact with roberu it's fun because he's a likable guy - not to mention in Towa's case she's actually competitive so it's mostly gamer talk and the guys stay quiet and don't get in the way.
however -- as pointed out to me it's a two way street, its not just the fans that are in the wrong here. and besides, a women has to give up things for a career, in regular society a women has to pretty much give up on having children or trying to have them later if she wants a high end corporate career.
if a streamer women wants to make 5 figures a month pandering to parasocial / unicorn / gachikoi types, and playing at being idol figures, then yes they should give up things that rock the boat such as any aspect of onscreen flirting or flaunting that kind of relationship with guys on stream. it's really not a huge sacrifice to be a top1% earner compared to most, especially for women.
they could be married or a whore IRL for all most care, so long as they are able to keep it absolutely buried and off the internet, and let people have their little dreamworld whilst they watch their oshi. but thats almost impossible.