>>22387556I'd be happy to as one writer to another. I'm into a good amount of different things, but breeding/pregnancy/lactation are 100% my main kinks so most of my fantasies are related to those for sure.
For me personally, a lot of my fantasies come back to this idea of belonging to someone and just being theirs, I guess? I'm pretty strictly monogamous and I can never quite understand polaymory or people who have open relationships/marriages lmao, to me it almost feels like they just wanna have their cake and eat it too. I think I find a lot of solace in the idea that someone could want me so totally and wholly to the point where they'd want to do something as relatively "permanent" and binding as have a family with me really feels good, lol. Obviously divorce exists and all that so, realistically speaking, you can't call marriage and having children together all that "permanent," but to me it feels like something that really seals the deal in a relationship and tethers me to my husband. I just tend to really like dominating, possessive, and controlling guys in general; I blame getting into yandere otome at a pretty young age in my teen years for this. A lot of my female friends have similar fantasies about this sort of thing and I think it's something a lot of girls feel a little embarrassed to talk about, but I don't mind. You know those twitter posts girls make about feeling flattered when their boyfriends get a little jealous? It's like that for me; I don't really consider myself the type to ever intentionally make my boyfriend jealous, but I will admit it feels really flattering when a guy gets jealous because you wore a cute dress out on a date and he noticed other guys looking at you. Just feels good to know that he kinda considers me *his*. Conversely, I enjoy it when guys get a little prideful about the fact that other guys look at me or something because it's kinda like a "yeah, that's right, this girl is mine" type thing. I've always been into confident and kinda cocky/narcissistic guys lmao
I also really like scenarios where I'm helpless. Bondage, psychological torment (again, I really like yandere scenarios lol) and that kind of thing. It feels good to be kinda "put in my place" and dominated is the easiest way I could describe it; I live a pretty busy life and I do a lot IRL so I really like to indulge in fantasies where I'm helpless and at someone else's control/mercy in the bedroom like that. It feels good to temporarily give up freedoms like being able to move or properly control my body (like bondage) and just being in someone else's care for a while; it takes a lot of trust and security to do that with someone, I feel, so being able to give up autonomy for a bit of time and just let someone else do as they please with me is something I fantasize about a lot.
Hopefully I get the chance to try all of my fantasies out someday. I have a bit of romantic/dating experience, but don't have any sexual experience because I'm exceptionally shy when it comes to physical intimacy so I've never initiated anything with past partners. I guess my aversion of physical intimacy makes scenarios where I'm helpless a lot more appealing to me since that kinda thing requires so much trust. I just indulge in a lot of dirty fantasies lol
