>>23328512Not wanting to blogpost, and I'll try to keep the lewd details to a minimum (mostly becauise there's a lot of them), but long story short, she suggested it once after I confided in her about how I was bullied as a kid (again, long story). I spanked her, and we both liked it.
A few months after that, she tried femdom (edging handjob+cowgirl, more specifically) and we were both into it. That's pretty much the gist of it. We never tried anything too hardcore (I'm too vanilla for that).