>>23635327You really shouldn't be reading manga then.
1- read manga with furigana: all Shonen manga have furigana on all words. This makes it extremely easy to look up words.
2. Read either a VN or a LN. Use ツッ reader for epubs. Use yomichan. Scan words you don't know. Send them to anki while you're at it.
I think is kinda... Dumb that you're mad at the language, when you're doing shit unnecessarily hard for yourself. What you descrive sounds annoying, but you are to blame either for not investigating the tools at your disposal, or for some reason choosing not to utilize them.
I am pretty newish at this shit, started in spetember/october last year. And I'm reading the romcom manga I talked about earlier no problem, almost not utilizing a dictionary (I'll do sometimes but because I'm curious) and I'm having no difficulty whatsoever at kanji.
I did properly my "how the fuck do you learn jap efficiently" reps properly tho. I would suggest you do the same.