>>25713650>>25713694>>25730062>>25738237Not him, but the reason why all of you have this negative view about male stoicism is because you are all part of an experiment to emasculate men in order to see if early life sociological influences can have a physical effect on testosterone development.
Now, personally, there's been a few times in my life when I've cried because of loss when I was young, of course it's due to being sheltered and unaccustomed to sudden loss.
However, of the times I've ever cried around a ex, it always had a net negative effect on the relationship.
As a lesson to you young men, tears are not meant to be shown to women, they are a signifier to women that you are incapable of bearing responsibility.
A lot of young men when they hear this, mistake this for,"well, that just means that specific woman is a sociopath! it's her fault!"
No, it is not.
Women have a lot of ingrained, subconscious feelings built into them, things like, how women scream out loud when something scary happens, this is a subconscious action that women cannot control, it happens because women were signalers during raids on encampments during tribal times, they warned the men that other men/animals were attacking and that them and the children are in danger.
Now, women also have a lot of subconscious measurement of men, your actions cause them to value you higher or lower in a hierarchy, which is the main way women determine attraction.
Crying around women is one of the worst things you can ever do if you want a woman to stay attracted to you, it almost always leads women to believing you are "emotionally manipulating them" because you are "acting like a woman," causing them to become increasingly unattracted to you
Now I know most of you have given up on trying to get a girlfriend and that's fine, but as an old man, I'm teaching you young ones why both men and women frown on you being overly emotional, because it signifies all the qualities of an unattractive man who is not in control of himself
If you have to be emotional, do it around the boys over some drinks, and leave it at that, don't overindulge