Everyone looks at this all wrong. You follow a vtuber then find out she's started seeing someone? Holy cuckerony, you just got played.
Finding out they're in a relationship before they debut?
That changes everything.
Now WE'RE the threats to their relationship. No, not schizo like she could actually fall in love with us, that's absurd, BUT it does raise her expectations doesn't it? I mean, she's exposing herself to a lot of people that do nothing but think long and hard about the many ways they can flatter her. Hell, she must get at least 10 superchats in one stream that are a million leagues more romantic than anything an IRL normie could ever think of. How basic and dull must a normal "I love you" sound now?
Also what about her preferences? Women love vindication, she never has to doubt her own choices in front of a legion of fans, but next to someone who sees themselves as her equal? The validation you get from another person's approval ends after the honeymoon period, at that point it's about tolerance, nobody wants to feel just tolerated in any aspect of themselves. The Vtuber's own standards drop next to the normie male as all their shit taste is embraced, meanwhile the vtuber has less time for the things they used to enjoy together.
I suppose you're hung up on the sex? She won't care about the flattery because of the sex! Yes, the mythical power of sex that dojins convince us is the ultimate power over another human being.
Well, you want to know what's more addicting than sex? Exhibition. Leaking out her forbidden thoughts, the odd shock from an illicit comment that makes them giggle just a bit more than they should, the atmosphere of shared degeneracy, slowly breaking down standards to see the wave of approval from the whole world, it's fun to be cheeky. We see it all the time from the male perspective, "Influencers" who end up getting a whole group of like-minded members, it always ends in controversy, but for just a moment the willing girls in that community become part of that crude act, and the regret is only as big as the shame. So what happens with a female influencer? Well, men expect to receive the pleasure, but the women, the woman love to give it.
"That's utterly insane, chat can't replace cock." Really though? Some of these people actually have you lusting over a dirty armpit and you think it's an insane stretch to think someone can't find the satisfaction of their own job to be a greater source of pleasure? Women lose interest in sex all the time.
The boyfriend represents the past. A reminder of the character flaws the vtuber inhibited before their new development as a vtuber began. Thanks to the segregation of personalities, the boyfriend becomes a stranger in their own relationship, the girl's experiences are no longer shared. Chat is the one who sees the new persona, the one who grows alongside, forgives every mistake, accepts every flaw. The Batman's strongest relationship is with The Joker, no? It will end up the same, He is alienated because she doesn't share anymore. She is alienated because he doesn't understand her.
We become the new relationship.
Isn't it sublime?
