The point of an idol is to show woman that unadulterated romantic adoration from thousands without ever taking dicks is much more satisfying than any dicking.
The point of idol fans is to show men that emotionally intense obsessive support and romantic attraction to non-whore women can disprove the colloquialism that all women are whores

idols are the key to solving the current power struggle between the two genders
embrace it
it's time to tell your oshi that she isn't allowed to have sex