>>29956603She is a yes woman.
Low self esteem and a lack of attention and love from her family made her unable to express her desires and avoid confrontation at all costs.
She knows quite well that she is fucking things up, but she prefers this to getting disliked by expressing her desires and issues when people don't do things correctly.
The result is that someone with a stronger presence will force her to do things against her will or artists supposed to work for her will ignore her.
The answer is simple. She needs to revisit her past and find solution to her bad memories to make them into good memories by solving them.
She needs to understand that as an adult she does not require her family's and society's acknowledgement.
She needs to watch this video and force herself to think about it for 30 minutes -1 hour until she remembers the memories which prevents her to be like this guy:
https://youtu.be/968yNvFiVH0Her subconscious will resist this attempt and try to distract her, but she needs to keep focusing on this question to find her answer.
Once she finds the memory and the cause she needs to reject it and find new healthier values after imagining a better situation.
Another way of doing it is to imagine a little brother/sister, and to decide to protect it and become its parent.
Then say to him/her:
I will love you unconditionally no matter what you do or happens and will love you because you exist.
I will support you unconditionally, and will be happier if you do the things which make you happy and realize your dreams.
For more information on this I suggest reading Toxic parents by Susan Forward.
The main issue would likely be not receiving love or attention from her parents in her case, "conditional love" (chapter 2 deficient parents)
