>>32761721> How do I, as a real day 1 member and fan, let her know that I don't really want collabs like these without making her hate me Tell her you’re parting ways with her without trying to change her mind or behavior. “I will leave if you do this” activates her contrarian nature by making her feel like she’s being told what to do, “that’s not what I’m here for but that’s alright, I got two years of what I did enjoy and I’m happy I got that, good luck and cya” hopefully doesn’t activate her contrarianism. (It still might, she is a woman after all, but it’s a better way)
>without making myself a target of the "gotta own the malding incels lel" reddit and discord crowd?You will always be a target to them, the only way to avoid that is to not feel the way you do. After all that’s what those people really want, to destroy you for having different opinions desires or feelings to them.
