>>34625102>>34625647Of course people are in the right to vent, i'm not one to deny this kind of free speech and the psychological need for it.
But also, for most of all their own sake, you as another person have to point out sometimes to them they have to grow as people. And i don't mean it in the insulting, condescending way; more in a concerned way.
If you saw that a 14 year old started crying because his parents rejected buying him X gadget/toy you would rightfully think he's way too old to be behaving like this and continuing to do so in the future will be a pain for him and for the rest of the people around him.
This is the same, even as adults we continue to understand what's right and wrong and grow as persons.
Take a moment to think about Mike. She has a manager who iirc is a dude, she is in contact with multiple lawyers who are likely dudes, she has decade-long friends who some of them are dudes, when she wants to put some merch out she will contact some artists which could very well be dudes, even the official translators for the chat are probably dudes.
Putting all together she is communicating with dudes almost or every single day.
Are we going menhera every single time some chat message, like in twitter or some mini phone conversation leaks in because she's pretty pon? Or maybe we should absurdly think she's fucking all of them?
I think the most reasonable choice is to understand that the strength of a relation isn't insecurity and paranoia but trust and confidence. That she chooses as husbands is valuable because she could choose anyone else but she is the happiest with us and willing to make us feel the same. It isn't because she's being treated as an hostage every time she makes a misstep.
Why do you think this anon chose to write this in japanese, if not to catch more her attention is the possibility she's looking here.
