>>3511397Sexuality is the motivation, not the outcome. If you like a woman, and they turn out to be a man does not make you gay any more than liking a woman who becomes trans makes you gay. Like it or not, certain traits are strongly related to one sex chromosome over the other, to deny this is deny empirical reality. While there are other traits which we impose on gender through culture, it is rare that these are the defining traits of attraction. Sure, these tertiary traits may be why you love someone, on an emotional level, and why you'd stay by their side until your last breath, but the reason you noticed them in the first place was, without a doubt, crude biology, and barring any rare and tragic defects, that crude biology can most certainly be grouped into two categories. You pretend that caring about someone is purely sexual, and that is a grace disservice to the wonders of the human psyche. You can deeply care for someone without wanting to fuck them.
