Reminder that any flirting made by a VTuber is all for show, especially when they say something like "I want an average guy!" or "I'd date a listener!", when it comes to actual boyfriends / husbands they'll pick someone exceptional (as they should, being in-demand females)
https://youtu.be/oYKKiVMlFz0Inuyama Tamaki's roommate, also a popular mangaka revealed that she got married recently. These were her criteria for a husband if you don't want to watch the video.
1. Has looks similar to her favorite actor. (Handsome)
2. Height over 180cm (average Japanese height is 170cm, so probably in the top 15th percentile or so, basically tall)
3. Within 5 years of her age (Relatively young)
4. Makes more money than her (She's one of the most successful indie tubers + a popular artist)
5. "A guy who'll be like a mom to me" (Basically pampers her)
She married a guy who's a company manager in his early 30s. While there are probably some paypigs among VTuber fandoms who are richer, do you really think you can meet all the criteria, if any, that these girls would want? Enjoy their streams but never delude yourself.