>>41439903I get the feeling, but lack of communication is literally the #1 reason for relationships falling apart.
I don't even want people to stop feeling that way, part of romantic love is the euphoria of being able to invest in a person who is (hopefully to a similar extent) invested in you. The sense of safety that comes with that lets people side-step the inherent stress of interpersonal risk evaluation and just take the plunge.
But for fucks sake, she spent 3 years with unicorns in her chat. She knows she has plenty of unicorns. Just convey your feelings like a well-meaning person and tank the mild discomfort of that for that moment because it will save all people involved from waaaay more discomfort in the future.
I can't fucking believe that the biggest schizo here has to explain this btw, it's ridiculous on its face. Well-meaning and sincere communication(as long as you avoid the times when its obviously a bad idea to bother the person, like when they're already dealing with shit) has a hilariously low failure rate unless one or both partners are autistic, extemely schizo(like beyond mikeneko schizo), or both.
