>>42717630>>42716980If you think women care about height you are already too far gone to understand how to actually get women.
A 250lb tinder thot with a 50+ body count saying she only dates men that are 6'3" and taller is not the average experience of talking to a random girl with shared interests.
"Normalfag" here in a 6+ year relationship, women love fantasy more than reality, so your interactions with them should be about selling a fantasy to them.
Sometimes these fantasies could be as simple as bonding over latte's at some hipster coffee shop while it's snowing outside, sometimes it's more grand and the fantasy is riding on the front of your boat while you smile at her.
There are many fantasies you can sell to women, it's why vtubers like Vox are so popular among women, while Vesper is the most unpopular among women.
Vesper is the antithesis of Vox, he is incredibly grounded, realistic and lives in minutiae, whereas Vox is a kayfabe experience that sells an attractive but mentally vulnerable persona to these chinese women, they want to fix him.
Yes, "fix him" is a fantasy you can sell to women, it's something that a lot of you guys can and should take advantage of.
>how to do thisFirst off, only certain women have this kind of fantasy, they are nurturing types, more domineering women do not want to waste time on you.
So look for girls that are sympathetic and have highly identifiable girlish hobbies, like arts and crafts, cooking, non-political volunteering
>but how do I open up a conversation with themLegit, just find ways to be around these women and just give them a casual wave and hi, these types are likely to interact with you occasionally just by being in their vicinity.
You could meet these kinds of girls at work, at one of their interests.
Just work on casual interactions and the opportunity will eventually open up,
If the girl ever talks to you on her own, there is a high chance you have an in.
>now how does selling the fantasy work againIf you have positive interactions with these girls, they will start to unconsciously think about you when you aren't there, as long as they are single.
Once you get to the point of where you can have conversations with each other, don't be afraid to talk about your mental issues that you most certainly have because you are on /vt/ asking about dating advice.
You'll find these girls will want to cheer you up and give you advice, and slowly, they will actually try to initiate a relationship instead of the other way around.
This is just one way you can go about selling a fantasy and you should do it while you are still legitimately pathetic because it sells it better.