>>44138281She marries (You) to get out of poverty, (You) marry her to get a wife who won't brainwash your children into being retards that cut of their penises and rip out their wombs.
Love is great, but love doesn't build a good marriage by itself. Don't marry for love alone. Let it enter the equation, but don't let it be the only variable. Just because you aren't madly in love at your ceremony doesn't mean you can't love one another down the line. Of course, do your due diligence and learn about the person you're going to marry; don't just jump at the first person who salivates at a green card.