>>44326687As a leech to my mom because of my own personal traumas, I can never respect this, even I'm trying to work on stuff to get a new job and move out as soon as possible
It's understandable if this is a thing that happened to her recently and this "personal maid" thing is a recent and temporary arrangement, but otherwise, I don't think it's healthy for her to just have absolutely no pressure to learn to be the bare minimum of socially functional at all