>>45217317You can "be better" without going to the extreme. You don't have to ditch vtubers, bench press 800 lbs with 2% body fat while making 7 figures and having the biggest social circle that ever existed.
In the absolute least, you can just "be better" by not being a massive POS who thinks "Oh my God she talked to a guy that means they're fucking!" After all, they ALL reply to people in chat who are, you guessed it, predominately men so are they fucking chat too and if so why aren't you as pathetically upset at that?