Men are attractive through simply living, women are attracted not to anything in particular, they are attracted to life being well-lived and repelled by weakness, disease and inactivity. The way to attract women is simply by doing what you're interested in and ignoring most other things, your happiness will attract others, that light and noise will in turn bring in women like moths - a culture or even a subculture in this way services it's own reproduction, memes and genes are crosslinked heavily in this way.
You ever notice in the book Beowulf, which is extremely old to the point of being written in old english, the monster Grendel is "repelled by light and laughter", Grendel brings ruin to a family ultimately by instilling cowardice in the heart of it's patriarch. What is Grendel a symbol for?
So, male v-tubing is drag, it tends to look like drag too. Men emitting the light and laughter that repels the beast of unattractiveness aren't performing for people, they don't care what others think, you have to go chase them down to even be with them, pretend to like what they like to get a wedge into their autism and insert yourself and your titties so that you can actually get impregnated by a Zeus-chad. Vtubing meanwhile is some Hermes type shit. So it's complicated, but also no it's not, more like it's so simple I can't answer.