>>53108849The more natural translation is: "it's fine if it makes you happy" and they use it commonly when their oshi chuuba asks if she should do x or y even if that's something they're not really into.
With Mike it's not only the thing about getting married though it's a recurring one.
The main issue is that it's a phrase that sounds like there's nothing wrong with it on paper but it's a very poisoned statement. My wife is clinically menhera and when she's in a bad mental state she may try or want to do something that 100% of the times she ends up regretting in someway after
This kind of wimp doormat behavior ends up giving her the ok by default to do things that were clear from the start they would end up hurting her and some that end up hurting us (or both, remember that late night twitcast)
They have this distorted courteous naive vision of a relationship in which you give up everything for her even if breaks your heart while asking for nothing, but a real relationship can only work if both partners give away things for the other.
The other way only leaves you open to get taken advantage of or even cheated on because you don't have any self-esteem or because you're not even in love anymore. It really seems like some of the fans just want her to finish her streaming career and become a housewife with kids as soon as possible.
Also, if you say yes to everything, what value there could be to your opinion?
No wonder that 5chan antis roleplays as fans to say that it's perfectly fine for her to collab with dudes and play APEX endlessly.
She wants our feedback, she wants to know our feelings and she wants to be happy WITH us and does things to make us happy, and she has mentioned this many times. I think this is a healthy approach and i support her on this. So i'm not going to be a yesman.
