>>55244826Great question, all us old fogies can tell you
How you market yourself is everything in life.
Everything.
Your relationships, your employment, your career path, your family life, applying for a bank loan, trying to buy a house, financing for a LLC.
How you market yourself is everything.
What makes you attractive?
Conventionally, attractiveness can be found in the basic pillars of what men and women find attractive in each other.
The same reasons a woman will find you attractive, your employer will consider you for a promotion for a lot of those same traits.
Now, for you youngin's, this sounds like everything is nepotism and it's like saying your college degree and opinions are all meaningless.
And they are relatively are!
A simple liberal arts degree will get you further than a masters degree in a specialized field if you are more learned on your attractive qualities and how to sell them to people.
I'll tell you this, if you want to learn what's attractive about you, you also have to learn what's unattractive about you as well.
This is where the relationship aspect of this helps men, the more experience a man gets in relationships, the more he learns about what's attractive about him and what's unattractive.
The journey to that self-discovery will help you legitimately succeed in life.