>>55546535>top down gridUnion series (Yggdra, Blaze, Gloria)
Langrisser (both games are fuckhuge, very not for everyone)
SRW (your mileage may wary, +alpha on psp is your best bet for a difficult game, touhou SRW fangame for PC has lunatic difficulty that'll kill you, has 4 games + save carryover between them)
>real-timeAI War 1, 2 (play the first one first)
WC3 (expansions, custom maps)
aoe3 (you need to drink first)
>turnbased (not top down grid necessarily)Etrian Odyssey
Dungeon Travelers
Stranger of Sword City (the game lets you use your own character images)
Labyrinth of Touhou 2 (if only because I haven't seen this level of ATB bar abuse in any other game)
Slay the Spire (only at A20 and only if you drink first)
stop watching vtubers