>>56419941The reality is that nobody actually gives a shit about "sex pests". If someone you like AND are attracted to you makes advances on you, you'll like it. If someone you don't like OR aren't attracted to makes those same advances, you won't like it, which would make them a "sex pest".
Sex pest has only become an increasingly common term because each gender has grown ever more hateful of the other gender as a whole, thus advances are taken less and less well, thus everyone kinda becomes a sex pest. Other than your own gender who you don't have a problem with, or the other gender if you hate your own gender.
Examples include extremely gay women who want nothing to do with men (Ex: Nerissa), gay guys who could just never tolerate women, straight men who would honestly rather interact with the homies in a faux gay way instead of even tolerate speaking to a woman, and straight women who just cannot for the life of them bring themselves to understand how to talk to men.
tl;dr Hatred of a large portion of humanity kinda just ruins social fabric and makes it nearly impossible to get along, even if the hatred may be deserved.