>>56877612nah, he's right, they're nasty people at the core, wishing for a level of control on someone that depends on them, and that undercurrent tends to ruin whatever positive feelings they hold for their oshi
they also turn into the worst antis when they feel like that control is slipping
if you consider yourself one of those, I'd tell you to kys, but I believe your actual end will be way more miserable than that