>>57432782NTA but not only is this way too much effort, time and investment just to get laid - especially for a 39 year old who has probably already experienced more shit than you anyway - but the truth is women don't even give a fuck about shit like self-improvement, men being healthy, confidence, social competence or any of that shit
women are actually whimsical and attracted to innate characteristics like height and arbitrary behaviors you have no control over or understanding of