I can see both sides of the argument, some girls might be terrified of collab'ing with people they very clearly know or want to know for fear of backlash, while others seem to force collabs simply to spite one or two people in their fandom
that being said, incel-shit, cuck-shit, and schizo-shit are at an all time high to where there is no "moderate" approach, so i say just let the oshi do the first few on her own volition
This is also why my go-to chuuba is a 2-3 view, but now she's pushing decent numbers and you can see some people pushing collabs of their own
