>>57591114You've got it pretty down pat anon! ASMR is a nice bonus but if you're not into it yourself, you don't have to do it at all. ESPECIALLY if it's RP. You can do story scenarios without the ASMR mic. Over the course of watching multiple different male vtubers, unintentional BFE seems to be the best BFE. Doing flirty pickup lines are fun sometimes but it hits harder when something comes from the heart. For example, I remember a time when someone playfully said "you're not watching other male vtubers, are you?" and you could tell they were just kidding and laughed it off afterwards. And then there was that time in a drunk ASMR stream where someone SC'd Vox saying they've watched another man's ASMR and he got genuinely upset. So one possessive BFE is just acting, the other is real. It's not easy to pull off, and I've come to realize that the latter requires a bit of mental illness
and I also notice that it's the same for GFE so I'm not going to go around suggesting that men don't take their meds just to get to that level of menhera. You can still do BFE that comes from the heart without being menhera, there are different tropes after all and your knowledge of those tropes will help you in the long run. Remember though, you don't always have to do intentional BFE at all. Sometimes just playing games cutely and having the fan mascot under you is "laying next to your bf while he plays games" experience. Just brush up on your different anime boy tropes to see which one you fit into. Or just be yourself and you'll naturally slide into the one that fits you best!
Something I would add is have some goals. Women love ambitious men and like to be inspired and reach their goals alongside with you. Have some short term goals, or long term goals, or both. Tell us a change you've always wanted to see in the world, and work towards it. Personally I'm working on reaching my goals again because of my oshi, and I love seeing a man who wants to achieve his dreams no matter how silly. In fact if they are silly or ridiculous but they have the drive to do it anyway, that's even better. One reason why Vox in particular has so many yumes isn't just because of the kisses and fanservice like so many people think. He inspires a lot of people. Your words have a lot of impact and saying you're proud of someone else for making progress goes a long way. That's also a reason why I think idols are so popular. Inpiration helps people keep going in life.
https://twitter.com/nekosaka6927/status/1674059281853739012I hope that helps, good luck!
