/vt/ - Virtual YouTubers » Thread #58309195

[37 / 1 / 34]

Am I a cuck if I want my oshi to be in a relationship?

Anonymous Mon 11 Sep 2023 19:11:52 No.58309195 View View Reply Original Report

Don't get me wrong, if I had a chance to be the one dating her, I'd do whatever it took to do so, but the reality is that this woman doesn't even know I exist.

So this person who has given me so much love and joy, I want her to be happy too. Does that truly make me a cuck?

Anonymous

Anonymous Mon 11 Sep 2023 19:15:52 No.58309376 Report

Quoted By:

Yes
Not really but this board has an obsession with even the slightest male interaction, good on you for wishing for the happiness of your oshi regardless of who brings her that

Anonymous

Anonymous Mon 11 Sep 2023 19:19:42 No.58309576 Report

Quoted By:

>>58309195
I want OP to be happy.

Anonymous

Anonymous Mon 11 Sep 2023 19:20:11 No.58309594 Report

Quoted By:

>>58309195
You're a cuck because you care about it.

Anonymous

Anonymous Mon 11 Sep 2023 19:20:41 No.58309620 Report

Quoted By:

that's nice anon. but you are not allowed to be a well adjusted individual here. leave and never come back, for your own sake.

Anonymous

Anonymous Mon 11 Sep 2023 19:22:06 No.58309695 Report

Quoted By:

You're a cuck because you're making a big deal about it. If you were mentally healthy you wouldn't give a fuck at all.

Anonymous

Anonymous Mon 11 Sep 2023 19:22:29 No.58309711 Report

Quoted By:

The fact that when thinking about happiness you immediately think of your oshi having sex with another man makes you a cuck. Not caring makes you a normalfag. If you care at all about this, you're either gachikoi/unicorn or a cuck.

Anonymous

Anonymous Mon 11 Sep 2023 19:26:39 No.58309933 Report

Quoted By:

>>58309195
I feel the same way, because I feel sad when I see a childless woman in her 40s, and I don't want my Oshi to end up like that.

Anonymous

Anonymous Mon 11 Sep 2023 19:30:59 No.58310168 Report

Quoted By:

>>58309195
Congrats OP, you aren't mentally ill and have reached emotional maturity ! (Somewhat)
It doesn't make you anymore of a cuck than the unikeks who will inevitably call you a cuck despite sharing the same girl with a thousand like them.

Sounds to me like you have a healthy outlook on this and have infinitely higher chances of ending up in a relationship than most of this board.

Anonymous

Anonymous Mon 11 Sep 2023 19:31:45 No.58310215 Report

Quoted By:

>>58309195
Not at all. You just want her to be happy even if it isn't you the one making her happy. Now if you feel bad about it happening or something then you are definitely a cuck. If you have any feelings towards her, then you are are a cuck already.

Anonymous

Anonymous Mon 11 Sep 2023 19:32:07 No.58310234 Report

Quoted By:

>>58309195
If it's someone like Choco, then no. If anything, I feel bad for that woman, who hasn't been able to keep a single stable relationship in her life. She ain't a bad person though, she deserves SOMEONE in her life at least. She's just too menhera to really keep anyone.

Anonymous

Anonymous Mon 11 Sep 2023 19:32:29 No.58310249 Report

Quoted By:

>>58309195
Chocobros..

Anonymous

Anonymous Mon 11 Sep 2023 19:41:53 No.58310785 Report

Quoted By: >>58314746

>>58309195
yes, anyone telling you otherwise is likely a cuck as well.
To help you understand why, imagine someone you know to be a cuck. Now think: "would they feel the same way i do?" in this case, the answer is very obviously YES. Therefore you are a cuck, it's that simple.
If "i want this person i like to be with someone else to make her happy" is not cuck mentality, then there is nothing is this fucking world that is.

Anonymous

Anonymous Mon 11 Sep 2023 19:46:49 No.58311059 Report

Quoted By:

Yes.

Anonymous

Anonymous Mon 11 Sep 2023 19:50:17 No.58311235 Report

Quoted By:

>>58309195
Cuck

Anonymous

Anonymous Mon 11 Sep 2023 20:05:02 No.58311919 Report

Quoted By:

You are asking this in 4chan, on the vtuber board.
Think about the answer by yourself according to your own moral compass and feelings, you don't need someone to tell you if what you are doing is right or wrong.

Anonymous

Anonymous Mon 11 Sep 2023 20:10:20 No.58312204 Report

Quoted By:

>>58309195
If you have romantic feelings for them then yes, you're a cuck. If you have platonic feelings for them, then no, you're not a cuck.

Anonymous

Anonymous Mon 11 Sep 2023 20:11:14 No.58312247 Report

Quoted By:

don't worry anon she's already in a relationship with me

Anonymous

Anonymous Mon 11 Sep 2023 20:14:52 No.58312425 Report

Quoted By: >>58314565

>>58309195
>does your oshi bait you with the fact that she is single? or she clearly stated from the beginning that she is just a friend?
if former then yes you are a cuck.

Anonymous

Anonymous Mon 11 Sep 2023 20:17:22 No.58312534 Report

Quoted By:

>>58309195
I think it depends on the context? I am too old to be a true unicorn, but in my youth I fucking loved Nana Mizuki, and hearing she did end up getting married and having a kid did make me happy

Anonymous

Anonymous Mon 11 Sep 2023 20:32:56 No.58313254 Report

Quoted By:

>>58309195
No. I also want my oshi to find someone.

Anonymous

Anonymous Mon 11 Sep 2023 20:49:22 No.58314016 Report

Quoted By:

>>58309195
The fact of the matter is you won't know if you trulyfeel that way until it happens. Think about it now OP, would you be able to swallow your jealousy and continue your pursuit elsewhere if she came out with one now? Or would you still gaze from afar and let yourself be hurt while simultaneously trying to be happy for the very relationship that's hurting you? Acknowledging the parasociality of it at least gains you points in the column of "well we aren't in a relationship, so it's not cuckoldry", but choosing not to let go at that point brings you danger close to the point of no other word fitting.

Anonymous

Anonymous Mon 11 Sep 2023 20:52:06 No.58314166 Report

Quoted By:

cuck is a state of mind

Anonymous

Anonymous Mon 11 Sep 2023 20:55:09 No.58314295 Report

Quoted By: >>58315468

>>58309195
No, you see her as your daughter.

Anonymous

Anonymous Mon 11 Sep 2023 20:58:10 No.58314422 Report

Quoted By:

>>58309195
If you're dating her and she likes someone else and prefers him over you then you're basically a cuck.
If she doesn't know you exist, then consider yourself not a cuck. There's a difference between the two but everyone /here/ often gaslights one another into thinking they're getting cucked. It's kind of a tradition at this point.

Anonymous

Anonymous Mon 11 Sep 2023 20:59:56 No.58314494 Report

Quoted By:

Yes

Anonymous

Anonymous Mon 11 Sep 2023 21:01:43 No.58314565 Report

Quoted By:

>>58312425
Saplings don't even get friend status and that's true for most entertainers. They aren't your friends. It's like getting mad that a celebrity or music artist gets in a relationship. It's inevitable

Anonymous

Anonymous Mon 11 Sep 2023 21:03:11 No.58314637 Report

Quoted By:

the cucks are actually the ones that think their oshis can't have a relationship

Anonymous

Anonymous Mon 11 Sep 2023 21:05:09 No.58314746 Report

Quoted By:

>>58310785
>To help you understand why, imagine someone you know to be a cuck. Now think: "would they feel the same way i do?"
Funny that, I actually know a guy into cuckolding. What gets him off about that is literally hentai logic: His wife has sex freely with other men and no matter what, she always crawls back to him and his superior dick that she can't live without.

Anonymous

Anonymous Mon 11 Sep 2023 21:09:45 No.58315019 Report

Quoted By: >>58315139

>>58309195
Yes you are a cuck, it doesn't matter whether it's a chuuba, a coworker or some nice lady you met somewhere, if you like or love someone you do everything you can to make get her and make her happy. Never think about someone else making your loved ones happy, that's your dammed job.

Anonymous

Anonymous Mon 11 Sep 2023 21:11:41 No.58315139 Report

Quoted By: >>58315572

>>58315019
what if i love 15 different chuubas

Anonymous

Anonymous Mon 11 Sep 2023 21:13:04 No.58315212 Report

Quoted By:

>>58309195
Relationships are the easiest way to fuck up someone. I want my oshi to be happy on the long term, so I wish her a good relationship with her family and her friends. As easy as that.

Anonymous

Anonymous Mon 11 Sep 2023 21:14:24 No.58315289 Report

Quoted By:

>>58309195
Yes.
Solely for the fact you are paying for her boyfriend's condoms

Anonymous

Anonymous Mon 11 Sep 2023 21:17:22 No.58315461 Report

Quoted By:

>>58309195
It depends how you see her. Do you lover her? How do you love her? Like a sister or a lover? Would you want to hear about the marriage on stream or would you rather not hear a single word about it?

Anonymous

Anonymous Mon 11 Sep 2023 21:17:32 No.58315468 Report

Quoted By:

>>58314295
If you saw her as your daughter you wouldn't want her to have a boyfriend either. This is cope.
You would need to meet him and see if he's a good person for her.

Anonymous

Anonymous Mon 11 Sep 2023 21:17:52 No.58315483 Report

Quoted By:

>>58309195
>Wanting a person you care about to be happy
No, silly question

Anonymous

Anonymous Mon 11 Sep 2023 21:19:25 No.58315572 Report

Quoted By:

>>58315139
Ya greedy bastard, then get outta here, bust your ass off at work because money doesn't grow on trees

Capcode	All Only User Posts Only Verified Posts Only Moderator Posts Only Manager Posts Only Admin Posts Only Developer Posts Only Founder Posts
Show Posts	All Only With Images Only Without Images Only Spoiler Images Only Non-Spoiler Images
Deleted Posts	All Only Deleted Posts Only Non-Deleted Posts
Ghost Posts	All Only Ghost Posts Only Non-Ghost Posts
Post Type	All Only Sticky Threads Only Opening Posts Only Reply Posts
Results	All Grouped By Threads
Order	Latest Posts First Oldest Posts First

On these archives

Your latest searches

Am I a cuck if I want my oshi to be in a relationship?