>>58570409My guy, you're sounding a little bit like a divorce court andy. I'll tell you this from experience, plenty of good kids have been raised with decent fathers who weren't blood related, and then the couple had another child and there was no issue between siblings. You've been watching too many dramas or been listening to too many incels barking about things they have no clue about. That type of thinking also discourages adoption as well, ruining chances for good kids too. Dumbasses worrying so much about the other guy sailing back in and "ruining their efforts" or the child somehow being a terror when most of the time, those kids end up respecting a decent person is just dumb. No, that seems to come from the types that use these "metrics" to convince themselves not to try even a regular relationship in the first place.