>>61900504>The whole babies ruin your life and you don't need a babyThey can if you're a fucking retard, and most people are fucking retards who literally don't have a clue what raising a child is actually like.
If you aren't ready, you risk ruining your life and, more importantly, the kids life.
People shouldn't be dissuaded from having kids, but to go the opposite way and say everything will be the same is dishonest and setting people up for life-ruination.