>>70236757Its never bad to want the best for yourself, but the problem stems from both sides fundamentally misunderstanding each other with little desire to bridge the gap, so people, even ones who formerly had husbands/wives/children end up going dry on dating apps as people just talk at each other and not with each other, making glaring misconceptions. Then nobody's happy, and everyone sticks up their noses at each other. Its sad beyond words.