>>7308344It's unfair to me. At the end of the day I'm paying for the broken plates by [poor example of men]. I get judged by the same gavel as those people even when I have no such history. I didn't ever have delusions of getting closer to them, but to know that there was a girl with all these qualities and shared interests AND she happens to prefer guys.. would have given me a little hope and confidence to search elsewhere at least. I snapped out of it pretty quick, but it seems like plenty of other anons are still seething pretty hard.