>>76356274As a married man I'll defend the incels for a second and try to explain why vtubers trend this way
>Women say their standards are a lot higher than their standards actually are as a way to save face>This is especially true for women who have little to no experience in the dating marketThis was definitely true during the early 2000's, women didn't want to be judged poorly by other women more in girl talk conversation
I'd say this dynamic changed as social media and online dating changed the way girls talk to each other about their dating life
I lucked out with a wife whose only history with social media was Discord and Miiverse, but I did have some exes in the early 2010's that I can give some anecdotes about
Modern women actively share dick pics and other pictures of men hitting them up with their girlfriends as a sign of boasting, ridicule or approval. It's not at the level of sharing a sex tape, but girls now talk way more about their sex lives with their close friends
I believe this is due to how cheap relationships have gotten, it's hard to brag about a man being emotionally comforting to you, but you can brag about him making you feeling small in bed, with the added benefit that your girlfriends will give you validation and approval for doing so
What this means is, women's standards have changed to become less about finding the best partner, but more to become the best story for her friends
Women still very obviously need security and comfort personally, and it's a dichotomy of need vs want, women have become designer brand addicts purely to brag to other women and get validation, women are addicted to social media purely to brag to other women and get validation
There's an obvious repeating pattern here
I'm seeing a lot of women my age currently realize their mentality has been stupid and are trying to fix it, so I do expect some level of a return to normal
However, for the incels that have had to suffer through a decade+ of women making decisions around impressing their girlfriends, none of what I said is comforting
Girls like Uruka are delusional because she's in the unique position of being a comfort woman to men that give her money and she has a giant friend group of other women who experience the same thing
It's rare for comfort women to have a good frame of mind for what a good man and partner is, their entire evaluation of men has been eroded by worship and the exchange of money, so creating some fictional, idealized tall and asian prince charming was a natural outcome of being a comfort woman, her sense of self is lost in the sauce
