>>76995584If you've ever done a Collab with a dude before you've already fucked up. Contrary to what Twitter and Discord groomers will tell you, the majority of vtuber fans do not enjoy watching men and women having fun when they themselves can't get any. There are some exceptions where cucks join a fanbase but those cases are definitely in the minority and you should not rely on them.
Apart from that, you've got to stream constantly, this shit is going to take work, you're not magically going to become the next Gura. Even Filian was pumping out shitty shorts and streaming over and over until she made it.