>>77580492I think it's a balance, It's probably a W compared to just being lonely, and it'll certainly increase your chances of having kids.
But seems like an L compared to the other route, of working on yourself, keeping your higher standards, being attracted to and capable of having a relationship with a woman who is more likely to be a better partner and parent.
Personally I'm embracing my lowered standards when it comes to the superficial, but not for what really matters. I literally don't care if she's considered a 3/10 looks wise, I just want someone intelligent and kind-hearted that I vibe with.
