>>78195862It's not having an obsession amplified by popularity I'm talking about, it's obsessing over a difficult to obtain and limited quantity (the affections of one anonymous person who doesn't know you and is on guard against people like you) alongside thousands of others doing the same thing.
Filian probably isn't going to get with a smacker, and if she did, it probably wouldn't be you. Emotionally investing in anything that denies that, even willful, self-aware delusion, is self-destructive behavior that guarantees burning yourself at some point.
>>78196396>finding someone attractive = romantic obsessionYou're retarded for saying this, but no, I've never paid attention to female celebrities and avoid celeb shit in general.