>>81783646yes unironically, i will say this now as a hopelessly addicted ffxiv player: raiding community has a lot of girls, ranging from the tpyical e-gilr that gets carried by their bf, the fujo, the actual sweaty one who plays properly, the one who loves to flaunt that they're a girl, ones who are normal, blah blah
i've met a lot of people through savage raiding, i've fortunately not been in drama but i've heard secondhand of a lot of drama - statics will dissolve over girls, or people will actively avoid having a bf/gf duo in their group
you can also meet girls from not raiding but i find that those ones are even more annoying or bitchy in some way