>>8267708I'm in the same situation, 29 y/o, without girl in last 3 years. I'm not even ugly or super boring, can strike a casual conversation, but tinder is just not working. In last year I had ~3-4 matches per month and it never worked out.
Partially because I live in a shithole and have ~30 km to the nearest city.
Partially because girls just don't engage in conversation. And I tried lots of different approaches. And after a few days without response I typically just remove them.
I stopped putting my feelings into it long ago.
It's hard as fuck to meet someone if you don't have any friends or buddies.
