>>82718169She's right though, and instead of stopping her, people should just accept it and move on. Neoteny is a set of traits found in children and the young of other lifeforms, and it's exactly these kinds of elements that anime uses to make things look cute.
Neotenic traits = designed to trigger in group sympathy(makes you care)
Sexual traits = designed to trigger in group mating behaviour(makes you horny)
In real life, sexual traits generally replace neotenic traits as the child grows into an adult, but there's a goldilocks zone where the neotenic traits are just about to wane and the sexual traits begin to become noticeable. These don't just include physical changes like boobs, statue and pubic hair, it's also movement, voice and way of communication. Anime plays with this border region between child and adulthood a lot, and if you have an adult woman exhibit non physical sexual traits through a body brimming with neotenic features, it makes those two sides of the coin overlap even more significantly.
tl;dr - you're all pedo and hebephiles and it's high time you accept that.