>>83088761totally get you and know just what you mean, but we have to try and remember the challenge and fun of "building the people around us". This is a topic in leadership that goes like "if you treat others like leaders, you build a troupe full of leaders, your job as a leader becomes easier as everyone grows stronger, people appreciate you, people can do the work and even lead without you but will still prefer your leadership. The best leaders *create leaders*." So it's sort of a positive reinforcement feedback loop mechanism that results in shaping the people around you into the kind of people you want to be around. This applies too in our intrapersonal relationships... I know you know this anon, just giving it as a reminder and hope it might help you to stay optimistic or hopeful. Relationships are what we make them. It is quite a shame, however, what placing so much legal power in women's hands has done to destroy not just so many great men but also families and so much more - for that argument I don't have an answer, and would probably just say "yep, 2d only, same here."
