>>85874870To put it shortly (not really), first build some confidence, and put you out there. Join groups, take some classes or courses about something you find enjoyable, put you in a situation where you will meet people
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>>85875327 said, it's not healthy to expect an Ame to come up, but focus in which things do you find attractive that she has, she has a ton of different interests and traits, which are the ones you resonate the most with? Focus on those
For example, something I really enjoy the nerdy side of her, like when she rants about animals and shows her terrariums, but maybe you enjoy her gamer side more, or how knowledgeable she is with tech, idk
Lastly, and this is going to sound contradictory but's important, when you're out there, dude don't obsess with the thought of finding someone to date, try to enjoy the thing, try to connect with that people, I know that's asking a lot since we're here of all places lmao, but if you manage to do it you'll end on a better place, and you'll be talking with people you enjoy talking sooner than later, and it's more likely any connection you make will be meaningful, the rest comes by itself really
