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Anonymous Wed 09 Oct 2024 14:41:34 No.87092592 View View Reply Original Report

Is it possible to enjoy GFE content only for the feeling of "Having a girl being nice and lovely towards you" without developing a strong parasocial attachment to the girl providing said GFE?

Anonymous

Anonymous Wed 09 Oct 2024 14:47:32 No.87092819 Report

Quoted By: >>87108279

No.

Anonymous

Anonymous Wed 09 Oct 2024 14:50:22 No.87092937 Report

Quoted By: >>87093016

>>87092592
Yes, but it'd be messed up to the girl

Anonymous

Anonymous Wed 09 Oct 2024 14:52:32 No.87093016 Report

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>>87092937
>Yes, but it'd be messed up to the girl
Elaborate

Anonymous

Anonymous Wed 09 Oct 2024 14:53:04 No.87093034 Report

Quoted By: >>87096125

>>87092592
Maybe if you were asexual, anon.

Anonymous

Anonymous Wed 09 Oct 2024 15:16:30 No.87094080 Report

Quoted By: >>87094727

>>87092592
That's a very thin line. If you are aware enough to not develop parasocial feelings, you are also probably gonna be aware that the girl, even when not insincere, is not being nice to you as a person or individual, but only to the blank slate that is the chat as a whole.

Anonymous

Anonymous Wed 09 Oct 2024 15:17:41 No.87094133 Report

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>>87092592
Yeah, but GFE draws all the psychopaths, sothat might make your experience rife with turmoil.

Anonymous

Anonymous Wed 09 Oct 2024 15:23:07 No.87094415 Report

Quoted By: >>87094727

>>87092592
I don't really see how.
What you're saying is you want a prostitute where you know it's fake and you just pay for 30 mins of fun

Anonymous

Anonymous Wed 09 Oct 2024 15:25:48 No.87094547 Report

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Anonymous

Anonymous Wed 09 Oct 2024 15:30:00 No.87094727 Report

Quoted By: >>87112429

>>87094080
To e fair I do believe this about a lot of GFE chuubas. I know some of them do extra homework and research their viewers/keep notes of things that specific viewers like, but listening to those "affirmation ASMR" and similar audios where the girl just tell how much hard work I'm doing etc. etc. When I know for a fact the vtuber doesn't know jack shit about me just gives me the feeling their saying general stuff to fit most viewers.
>>87094415
As harsh as you make it sound, I can't deny there's some truth to it. I just want the warm feelings without getting attached to a girl, so that I don't get hurt if she turns out to be a terrible person have a Special Other I don't know about.

Anonymous

Anonymous Wed 09 Oct 2024 16:00:43 No.87096125 Report

Quoted By: >>87111439

>>87093034
I just wanna get pampered and maybe a boner from chuubas without catching the feels bro.

Anonymous

Anonymous Wed 09 Oct 2024 16:02:27 No.87096194 Report

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>>87092592
Isn’t the point of GFE to become parasocial to some degree?

Anonymous

Anonymous Wed 09 Oct 2024 16:03:23 No.87096240 Report

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In theory it's very possible.
In practice it's likely to be very hard.

Anonymous

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Anonymous Wed 09 Oct 2024 16:06:50 No.87096386 Report

Quoted By: >>87101465 >>87107467

I don't give a fuck, lick my ear hole BITCH. I want to hear every one of your tastebuds roughly clinging and letting loose from the mesh of your mic.

Anonymous

Anonymous Wed 09 Oct 2024 16:12:35 No.87096629 Report

Quoted By: >>87096665 >>87097522 >>87097784 >>87098201 >>87098645

>>87092592
What you need is not a girlfriend experience, but a girl friend experience. Like someone who just don't give out any sexual vibes. But I don't there is anyone like that because GFE is pandering to gooners by default

Anonymous

Anonymous Wed 09 Oct 2024 16:13:37 No.87096665 Report

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>>87096629
>I don't think
*fix

Anonymous

Anonymous Wed 09 Oct 2024 16:14:06 No.87096686 Report

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>>87092592
no. if you don't like the chuuba, then you'll just get annoyed and leave. if you do like her, you WILL fall in love with her.

Anonymous

Anonymous Wed 09 Oct 2024 16:14:51 No.87096722 Report

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>>87092592
nay

Anonymous

Anonymous Wed 09 Oct 2024 16:32:12 No.87097522 Report

Quoted By: >>87106450 >>87108172

>>87096629
>What you need is girl friend experience
But I do want my flirty sexy GFE. Nothing in life is sexier than a girl wanting some.

Anonymous

Anonymous Wed 09 Oct 2024 16:38:31 No.87097784 Report

Quoted By: >>87106450 >>87108172

>>87096629
>female
>not giving out sexual vibes
you REALLY underestimate our desperation, femanon.

Anonymous

Anonymous Wed 09 Oct 2024 16:48:36 No.87098201 Report

Quoted By: >>87106450

>>87096629
>women
>no sexual tension
Holy fuck i can smell this post

Anonymous

Anonymous Wed 09 Oct 2024 16:58:29 No.87098645 Report

Quoted By: >>87100041 >>87106450

>>87096629
>gooners
I fucking hate Zoomers. I'm honestly shocked at how quickly "gooner" turned from
>literally masturbating into a daze for hours
to
>something even remotely sexual, even PG-13 level

Anonymous

Anonymous Wed 09 Oct 2024 17:29:18 No.87100041 Report

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>>87098645
And what's weird is that we had comer before that, which is a term that came and went from popular lingo in a matter of months.

Anonymous

Anonymous Wed 09 Oct 2024 18:01:20 No.87101465 Report

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>>87096386
Recommend chuubas for this.

Anonymous

Anonymous Wed 09 Oct 2024 18:25:13 No.87102769 Report

Quoted By:

>>87092592
Yeah you just gotta keep yourself in check when you get too deep into it, and sort yourself out before indulging again.
Always keep this in mind they're not physically there for you and you can't be there physically for them. Also don't let the loneliness take a strangle hold on you or the GFE content will eventually consume you.

Anonymous

Anonymous Wed 09 Oct 2024 18:35:20 No.87103327 Report

Quoted By:

>>87092592
really, a wojak? fuck off, faggot

Anonymous

Anonymous Wed 09 Oct 2024 18:42:25 No.87103723 Report

Quoted By:

>>87092592
Yes. I just treat it as something pleasant to listen to. I don't bother engaging with them at all, so there's zero attachment.

Anonymous

Anonymous Wed 09 Oct 2024 18:46:13 No.87103947 Report

Quoted By:

>>87092592
No. Next question

Anonymous

Anonymous Wed 09 Oct 2024 18:54:42 No.87104459 Report

Quoted By: >>87105764 >>87106152

>>87092592
yeah, i've been listening to JP GFE asmrtists for years, and i don't have a strong attachment to them, even when they're clearly parasocial themselves. it just depends on you, really, no one can tell or teach you how to feel or not to feel a certain way about someone.

just gotta watch and see what happens, though it'd probably come more from watching someone longterm and becoming used to their presence in your life moreso than watching someone who is specifically "GFE"

Anonymous

Anonymous Wed 09 Oct 2024 19:13:37 No.87105764 Report

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>>87104459
I think that listening to ASMRists that don't talk a language you understand can put a layer of separation that isn't there or ASMRists in your native language

Anonymous

Anonymous Wed 09 Oct 2024 19:19:35 No.87106152 Report

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>>87104459
How well do you understand Japanese, though?

Anonymous

Anonymous Wed 09 Oct 2024 19:23:15 No.87106450 Report

Quoted By: >>87106914 >>87107699

>>87097522
>>87097784
>>87098201
So you want sex without feelings? Then look for the most whorish of whores so that you would never fall in love with her in fear of becoming cucks
>>87098645
>literally masturbating into a daze for hours
That's what I meant. Most of the GFE revolves around that

Anonymous

Anonymous Wed 09 Oct 2024 19:29:37 No.87106880 Report

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>>87092592
Only if you never ever not ever join chat. Never make an account, never donate money, never send her a message of any kind. The moment you hear her directly responding to your words, it's over. (You) cannot exist to her.

Anonymous

Anonymous Wed 09 Oct 2024 19:30:07 No.87106914 Report

Quoted By: >>87107103

>>87106450
>how do i have feelings with woman without sex?
>that doesn't happen? What? You mean you guys want sex without feelings?! huh?!
Retard

Anonymous

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Anonymous Wed 09 Oct 2024 19:32:01 No.87107033 Report

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>>87092592
Yes, literally just enjoy shit and not give her money. If you’re invest and agree the parasocialness makes you happy and you stop giving a shit and stop being susceptible to dumb takes/ what other people think, then you can open your wallet.

Anonymous

Anonymous Wed 09 Oct 2024 19:33:04 No.87107103 Report

Quoted By: >>87107896

>>87106914
Wtf do you want to say? OP clearly states he wants GFE with all its sexy stuff but without becoming parasocial. One option is look for a literal whore because you'd never become parasocial with a whore, would you?

Anonymous

Anonymous Wed 09 Oct 2024 19:34:59 No.87107238 Report

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>>87092592
Imagine those thoughts but replace it with a Sports team. See the only way to avoid becoming attached is by being a bandwagon bitch and never spending money while shitting on other fans from other teams. Do the same and you can’t get attached, go from GFE to GFE vtuber, blow your load, never give them money and keep going.

Anonymous

Anonymous Wed 09 Oct 2024 19:38:30 No.87107467 Report

Quoted By:

>>87096386
Fucking based. Are you me?

Anonymous

Anonymous Wed 09 Oct 2024 19:42:08 No.87107699 Report

Quoted By:

>>87106450
>Most of the GFE revolves around that
No, it doesn't? I'm aware that some of the coomer girl corporations lean into that, but that isn't the standard.
People /here/ used to hold Rushia to the standard (obviously before her fall from grace) and although she wasn't a prude, she was hardly a coomer. Someone like Fallenshadow also doesn't lean into coomer stuff and she's arguably one of the biggest GFE streamers on the EN side still around?

Anonymous

Anonymous Wed 09 Oct 2024 19:45:11 No.87107896 Report

Quoted By: >>87108172

>>87107103
>want feelings without sex
>get told this isnt possible
>HUH?! HE WANTS SEX WITHOUT FEELINGS?!
retard

Anonymous

Anonymous Wed 09 Oct 2024 19:50:01 No.87108172 Report

Quoted By: >>87109178

>>87107896
Do I have to quote specifically for (You)?
>>87097522
>But I do want my flirty sexy GFE
>>87097784
>not giving out sexual vibes
>you REALLY underestimate our desperation
Or maybe I should clarify, I don't mean literal whores, I mean vtubers that are known to have boyfriends or cuck their audience in some other way. In that case anons would never fall in love with them

Anonymous

Anonymous Wed 09 Oct 2024 19:51:41 No.87108279 Report

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>>87092819
the thread shoul've ended here

Anonymous

Anonymous Wed 09 Oct 2024 19:52:33 No.87108335 Report

Quoted By: >>87109372 >>87109718

>>87092592
lol literally just talk to a girl, how hard is that
it's 2024, women are in whatever garbage hobby you have so it's easier than ever

Anonymous

Anonymous Wed 09 Oct 2024 20:04:32 No.87109178 Report

Quoted By: >>87109784

>>87108172
>do i have to quote
Why? Youre still being retarded and still insisting on it

Anonymous

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Anonymous Wed 09 Oct 2024 20:06:05 No.87109292 Report

Quoted By:

>>87092592
Yeah

Anonymous

Anonymous Wed 09 Oct 2024 20:07:33 No.87109372 Report

Quoted By:

>>87108335
>literally just talk to a girl
That's basically against the law and you run a fairly high risk of being arrested.

Anonymous

Anonymous Wed 09 Oct 2024 20:11:49 No.87109718 Report

Quoted By: >>87109944 >>87110387

>>87108335
I do talk to a few girls, but no gf, only casual friends, so the "GF that is super nice and dotting to you" is something I feel I'm missing.

Anonymous

Anonymous Wed 09 Oct 2024 20:12:39 No.87109784 Report

Quoted By: >>87111416 >>87111843

>>87109178
>no argument
I accept your concession

Anonymous

Anonymous Wed 09 Oct 2024 20:14:52 No.87109944 Report

Quoted By: >>87111355

>>87109718
It's not really something that exists in real life anyways. The only place you'll find that kind of stuff is fiction/acting.

Anonymous

Anonymous Wed 09 Oct 2024 20:20:29 No.87110387 Report

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>>87109718
Strange. I've had female friends and I'm so used to it being casual and feeling like I've never had a chance in the first place that GFE stuff feels inauthentic to me.

Anonymous

Anonymous Wed 09 Oct 2024 20:25:54 No.87110789 Report

Quoted By:

>>87092592
Theoretically? Yes
Realistically? No. If you're weak enough mentally that you're seeking out people you don't know who are saying nice things so you can pretend like they're saying it to you specifically then you're already too far gone to not make it parasocial.

Anonymous

Anonymous Wed 09 Oct 2024 20:33:55 No.87111355 Report

Quoted By: >>87111850

>>87109944
It's definitely something that exist IRL, you just need that your GF is willing to act extra dotting just because she knows it makes you happy, and that isn't every girl.

Anonymous

Anonymous Wed 09 Oct 2024 20:34:39 No.87111416 Report

Quoted By: >>87111922

>>87109784
>concession
AAAAAAHAHAHAHAHAHA
Youre having a melty over getting told youre retarded because you started asking about whores when you were told that friendship with women doesnt happen without sexual tension, and now youre pretending you've "won" an argument that's not even happening holy shit youre stupid hahaha

Anonymous

Anonymous Wed 09 Oct 2024 20:35:05 No.87111439 Report

Quoted By:

>>87096125
Then you need to never watch the same girl more than once

Anonymous

Anonymous Wed 09 Oct 2024 20:41:05 No.87111843 Report

Quoted By: >>87111922

>>87109784
You are retarded and a fool. Boys and girls cannot be friends and your father failed you for not sharing that advice

Anonymous

Anonymous Wed 09 Oct 2024 20:41:13 No.87111850 Report

Quoted By: >>87113947

>>87111355
That's just it, it's still an act, and once you know it's an act it loses all feeling. You'd get a more "genuine" response from one of those character AIs after feeding it an extensive and highly specific fantasy prompt.

Anonymous

Anonymous Wed 09 Oct 2024 20:42:28 No.87111922 Report

Quoted By: >>87112120 >>87112255 >>87114424

>>87111416
>>87111843
>Boys and girls cannot be friends
Sounds like a skill issue

Anonymous

Anonymous Wed 09 Oct 2024 20:45:37 No.87112120 Report

Quoted By: >>87112218

>>87111922
You are probably gay and that is why you have no issues with it

Anonymous

Anonymous Wed 09 Oct 2024 20:47:15 No.87112218 Report

Quoted By: >>87118386

>>87112120
Nope. And I'm neither a woman nor a trans. I might be asexual, but still it's not my problem if you can't keep your dick in your pants

Anonymous

Anonymous Wed 09 Oct 2024 20:47:55 No.87112255 Report

Quoted By: >>87112326

>>87111922
Anon the friendzone is a lie girls tell you because saying youre unfuckable to your face makes them feel like theyre the bad guy

Anonymous

Anonymous Wed 09 Oct 2024 20:48:59 No.87112326 Report

Quoted By:

>>87112255
They also don't want to deal with a potential melty.

Anonymous

Anonymous Wed 09 Oct 2024 20:50:33 No.87112429 Report

Quoted By:

>>87094727
>a terrible person
That really depends on what you perceive to be "a terrible person". There are layers. If a certain chuuba acts like a catty twat, at most it causes mild annoyance in me. But there are some other egregious cases, where she has done something truly horrible, and now she's dead to me.

Anonymous

Anonymous Wed 09 Oct 2024 21:16:54 No.87113947 Report

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>>87111850
>Girl that likes you is willing to dote on you simply because she knows it makes you feel good and brings you joy
>ThAt'S tHe SaMe As Ai
Anon are you being stupid on purpose?

Anonymous

Anonymous Wed 09 Oct 2024 21:27:02 No.87114424 Report

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>>87111922
It is. These people are deliberately shutting out opportunities to learn how to manage relationships with women and denying strong potential avenues for relationship advice.

Anonymous

Anonymous Wed 09 Oct 2024 22:17:04 No.87116947 Report

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>>87092592

Anonymous

Anonymous Wed 09 Oct 2024 22:42:40 No.87118386 Report

Quoted By:

>>87112218
>Asexual

lmao yeah skill issue

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