>>87899717Avoiding birth control pills is totally a chinese thing.
Your chinese parents refuse to let you go to a doctor that isn't a member of their locale chinese community, who will gossip to both your parents and the rest of the community about your body. If you ask about birth control, they assume you're sexually active and spread it around, your parents nose into your personal life to find out who the future son in law is and everybody in the community whispers about how you're a whore. These communities are small and tightly knit, gossip a lot and obsess over reputation so it's difficult to access health services for anything without it becoming a subject of conversation on wechat. And ditching your local chinese doctor to find an english-speaking one that won't report confidential medical data to your family is a horrific transgression likely to get you beaten from your dad for 'hiding something' because staying pure so you can be married off to a wealthy and reputable member of the community is a pocket obsession.
