>>90382084>Now, she's actively moving on and seems to have a plan for the future, hence joining a new corpo and beginning to work harder on projects for her community.Anon, she’s still saying the same kind of shit that made me stop watching her in the first place. And now, she’s doing it right after debuting with a new corpo. This is beyond fucked up. I know you probably can’t see it because you’re too close to her, but it’s obvious she’s not moving on at all.
Now, I’m probably wasting my time here, but let me give you some advice anyway, because I have plenty of free time. And I think it’d be good for you to at least read it, even if later you pretend to ignore me or just call me a schizo retard
I’m sure this will go in one ear and out the other right now, but maybe it’ll stick in some part of your mind. And maybe one day, it’ll click:
You guys need to tell Sayu to get professional help. No, sending her donations, showering her with praise, or thanking her for how sweet she is isn’t helping her. I get why you might think it is, but it’s not. She needs real help. She needs to take an actual break to figure out what she really wants, what makes her happy, and how to reach her goals. And most importantly, she needs someone outside her bubble to give her real perspective on her situation
The problem is that this whole thing is a codependent mess. You’re both feeding off each other’s misery. Sayu knows she has a problem, and you know it too. Hell, there’s probably even a chance you’ve DM’d her during one of her meltdowns, shared your own experiences, tried to cheer her up and give her some advice. But guess what? That means nothing because, at the end of the day, you’re just a random person to her. You don’t really know her, so she doesn't really care in any meaningful way about your personal opinion, and that’s the truth
I’m saying this because I know you guys are more like a group of friends than a typical fanbase. I wouldn’t even bother saying this to any other community. But if you really want to help her, you need to act as a real community. I’m not saying you should bring this up during a stream, because that’s not the time or place, and she’d just see it as an attack. And private conversations aren’t an option either, for obvious reasons
But your community is very tight-knit by now. I’m sure you’ve formed smaller groups of friends who talk to each other. You don’t have to do anything public. Get together, agree on a message, and reach out to her manager. Ask them to pass it along to Sayu. That’s the kind of action that might actually make a difference, far more than any donation or random DM ever could
Well, whatever happens, happens. Good luck, I genuinely wish you all the best
