>>90347928The differences between two individuals of any given sex are generally much more significant than any commonalities or "gender" modality. By the time you found two distinct traits based on sex you've found hundreds of differences based on the individual that renders the whole process moot.
So as for the question of whether there are psychological differences, probably, but none that are relevant and are utterly dwarfed by the much bigger psychological differences between how any two men appreciate Yuri or two different woman appreciate Yaoi/BL