>>91220122In my case, I got lucky with online dating. I had to eat a lot of shit with terrible relationships before giving it one more shot with my wife. My advice is to ignore online dating. Having a decent job and not being fat helps. I had success in the past by taking my dog to a dog park and the pet store. Had two gfs just because my akita wanted to play with their pets. So maybe find an interest/hobby that gets you outdoors and mingling with the fairer sex?